Remember Rationing
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My name is Betty Jones, and I was about 7 years old when war broke out. It was June 3rd 1938, when I first joined girl scouts in
My name is Betty Jones, and I was about 7 years old when war broke out. It was June 3rd 1938, when I first joined girl scouts in
Everyone remembered me as “the Little Betty Helper Jones”. I was all over the place. Mama had to work in a factory during the day, so I would help clean up and prepare for dinner during the night. There wasn’t much to do, cleaning supplies were limited and so were food supplies, so during the day I would walk around and see if our neighbors were doing okay. I quit school at the age of 7 because mama thought it was too dangerous. She didn’t want me to loose my childhood and wanted me to be safe. Everyone was wearing gas masks everywhere they go; it was as if walking in and out of home was like walking into a death trap. Baker David taught me to quickly fall flat on the floor or run to the nearest home. Baker David was a nice, old man. His son went into war, so I helped out sometimes, at the same time, earning mamma and I some free bread or money. He couldn’t do much, so I helped him stacked boxes and make some dough. I tried my best to cheer him up, but when I realized that I may not get to see my papa, brother or Uncle Benny again, there wasn’t much positivism in me. I used to turn to my teacher, Ms. Lauren for encouragement, but even she was miserable on the inside. Ms. Lauren was my old teacher, but since her brother left for war, she has been a gloomy mess. She tries very hard to stay as positive as possible, but I can always see her cry in the corner of the street, asking why this is happening. I would occasionally help clean up around her house, because she’s too devastated about what has happened. Many boys older than me left as well. I don’t know exactly where they went, but mama said they were helping out. It wasn’t until I was 12 years old, when I realized that it was my turn to take part in a national registration for war service. As I saw the young men leave, many mothers were crying. Luckily, I didn’t have to leave mama. I stayed and taught younger kids, kids who were 5 or 6, how to use gas masks. During World War 2, I can only describe everyone under three simple words: worried, angry, sad. Throughout this time, it made me realize that no one was safe. At any time, a bomb could possibly give us a surprise attack.
When I first stepped down on Canadian land, I had an impression that Halifax was all grey rock and swirling snow. A cold, cold place. However, to my relief, the people were far from that. Warm, friendly and welcoming. I felt like… part of a family. At first, I walked around with new friends that I’ve made on the journey, but soon, ALL the women of Halifax were our friends. All of them were very nice, and we soon had our tea and crumpet parties with them as well. It wasn’t just the women, it was EVERYONE. The men were so helpful. It reminds me of what days back in Britain felt like (which is just a few days ago, but it felt like a looong time).
First, we all started out as strangers, and polite acquaintances. But in less than a span of 1 day, I felt like the whole entire city was friends with me.
So, have you ever been to a new place, or meeting new neighbours? How was it for you?
I remember those years before I met William Lyster (a brave Canadian sergeant and now my husband), when I was still in Britain. I think I was only about 20 years old at the time I met him. But before that, I was just a normal, average, young woman. I hung out with my girlfriends and we had occasional outings to have tea and crumpet parties. Oh gosh, the time we had together! I still remember the times we had during those parties, eating, laughing and gossiping. Do I miss those days! But after I married Bill, I started to spend more time with him. But my friends and I still kept in touch regularly. However, our outings did become less frequent, but when we did… by golly! And by the time I was pregnant with my first baby, Terry, my girlfriends had to come and visit me. Near the end of the war, Bill had to return back to Canada, and I was left in England with little Terry.
In early 1946, I was waiting with 18-month-old Terry for our ride to Canada. Bill was in the hospital at the time in Calgary because of wounds he suffered before the war ended. I said my goodbyes to all my friends. There were tears and sadness, but we promised to write to each other. Terry and I sailed the Mauretania from Liverpool with a group of nearly 1000 Canadian war brides. There, I met many other women, who were just like me! It felt great to be with others who were like me. I also met Maida who described herself as “back door Canadian war bride”, referring to being at first a Newfoundlander. Several days later, we reached Halifax, and into the arms of my husband.
After a while, a sort of ‘war bride clubs’ was formed for us women. It provided us with welcome and relief. They taught us French or English, cooking and Canadian culture, and provided an opportunity for us all to gather. I made many long-lasting friendships here, including Melynda. However, taking care of our children and husbands became our first priority and these clubs faded into the past. But in the 1970s, there was a renewed interest in getting together again. Gloria Brock established the foundations now known as the War Brides Clubs and Provincial War Brides Associations.
So do you remember any old friends that you’ve lost? Any new friends made?
PS – Loooong post.